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My personal argument for a ‘no’ vote on Prop One

October 19, 2026 by sueboo Leave a Comment

Every so often our family travels to Southern California to visit extended family.  Most of the time we drive our people (and cargo) hauler Suburban the 13-14 hours from Boise to Los Angeles.  On one occasion, we happened to hit the 405 freeway during rush hour.  Anyone who’s ever spent any length of time in L.A. is thinking “when is it NOT rush hour on the 405?” IYKYK

While traffic sat at a standstill on both sides of the freeway and my kids were watching a movie in the back, I took a minute from my mild impatience at Southern California traffic to look around.  The sheer number of cars was staggering.  I then looked at the people in the cars.  It filled me with an overwhelming sense of awe at the thousands of strangers who were engaged in this shared experience of LA traffic.  

I thought to myself of the stories each person might tell.  I wondered how much more I might understand of the world if I could know each of them personally.  It reminded me that each life is precious and unique.  Also, that we come to earth to have an experience and that those experiences shape who we ultimately become and how we think.  

I can’t explain why that singular experience on the 405 caused so much reflection that day.  Heaven knows, I’ve been stuck in traffic more than once in my life and the feelings that often accompany it cannot be considered thought-provoking.  Still, I hark back to that moment as a reminder to think kindly of others because each has a story that plays into how they think and act.  That story matters.

I have a story too.  I don’t intend to relay my entire life story today.  But, in reflecting on my views regarding an upcoming ballot initiative regarding abortion in Idaho, I hope to share some of the experiences that shape my worldview.  I acknowledge understanding and compassion for those whose views differ.

I am a deeply religious person.

My family raised me in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  Sometime as a young adult, I decided that I truly believed its teachings and wanted to continue on that path.  Because of my faith, I believe that all individuals are created in the image of God, are His spirit children, and that human life is precious.  I also believe that God calls prophets throughout the ages (think Abraham, Moses, etc.) who are called to teach His word.  Prophets teachings are recorded as scripture.  According to my faith tradition, God still speaks to mankind through living prophets and apostles.  Though these fail to even scratch the surface of what my faith teaches; they reflect the tenets I feel remain most relevant to the topic of abortion.

So let me include just a few tidbits of what scriptures have to say that relates to abortion:

“Thou shalt not kill” (Exodus 20:13)

“Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee” (Jeremiah 1:5)

“And it came to pass, that, when Elisabeth heard the salutation of Mary, the babe leaped in her womb; and Elisabeth was filled with the Holy Ghost: And she spake out with a loud voice and said, Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb.” (Luke 1: 41-42)

“Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.”  (Psalms 127: 3)

Additionally, modern revelation (revealed through modern prophets and apostles) says the following:

“The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints believes in the sanctity of human life. Therefore, the Church opposes elective abortion for personal or social convenience, and counsels its members not to submit to, perform, encourage, pay for, or arrange for such abortions.

The Church allows for possible exceptions for its members when:

  • Pregnancy results from rape or incest, or
  • A competent physician determines that the life or health of the mother is in serious jeopardy, or
  • A competent physician determines that the fetus has severe defects that will not allow the baby to survive beyond birth.

Even these exceptions do not automatically justify abortion. Abortion is a most serious matter. It should be considered only after the persons responsible have received confirmation through prayer. Members may counsel with their bishops as part of this process.

The Church’s position on this matter remains unchanged. As states work to enact laws related to abortion, Church members may appropriately choose to participate in efforts to protect life and to preserve religious liberty.”  (Official statement from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints)

Here’s a link to various quotes from church leaders regarding abortion. 

And this is perhaps the most recent address given on the subject in a churchwide conference in 2025. 

In a nutshell, I believe abortion is a moral stain on our society, and though there are exceptions, those exceptions do not ALWAYS justify abortion.  I personally know women who have foregone abortion even in those cases. Their stories inspire me.

Justifying the taking of innocent life by labeling it “choice” or “healthcare” exemplifies one of the most effective lies perpetuated in the history of the world.   We can use our agency to do better and create laws to reflect that aim. 

Some may discount my opinion because it is so deeply tied to my faith.  Just because my moral foundations find their roots in religious belief does not make them any more or less credible than another’s beliefs.  I’ve made it to middle-age and feel quite satisfied with the results of my adherence to my religion.  My experience is not an isolated incident.  I respect the right of others to believe differently and try not discount the opinions they form based on their experiences.

I try to do my homework before taking a stand.

During my college studies, I took a political research course that altered the way I process information forever.  Consequently, when presented with “facts” I attempt to recognize the logical fallacies in any argument (including the side that resonates with me).  The class also inspired me to research actual data when confronted with a controversial topic.  I’ve done so with regard to Prop One – the ballot initiative expanding abortion access in the state of Idaho.

First, I deleted my Facebook app temporarily – the sensationalism surrounding this issue has been at a fever pitch.  I then read current Idaho State law regarding abortion including the Defense of Life Act (It wasn’t my first time reading it – merely a refresher).  After that, I read the text of Prop One.

Reading the actual text of these documents helped me to dispel some of the talking points of each side and evaluate them on their merits alone and how they align (or don’t) with my personal beliefs.  

According to my reading, in its simplest terms, Idaho law currently allows abortion when the mother’s life is at risk, when a pregnancy results from rape or incest (and a report filed), or when the fetus will not be able to survive outside of the womb.  Physicians who perform abortions outside these parameters may be subject to criminal investigation punishable by imprisonment for 2-5 years and the loss of their license for 6 months on the first offense and permanently revoked upon a subsequent offense.  Women subjected to abortion procedures will not be criminalized.  Birth control, miscarriages and treatment of ectopic or molar pregnancies are not considered abortion, according to state law.  

Prop One, or the Reproductive Freedom and Privacy Act, at a basic level, removes the right of the state of Idaho to prohibit abortion before the age of viability.  It also limits government intervention in abortions after viability in the case of medical emergency.   Medical emergency is defined as “a physical medical condition that, on the basis of a physician’s good faith medical judgment, based on the facts known at the time, and determined on a case-by-case basis, complicates the physical medical condition of a pregnant patient as to warrant an abortion:

  • i. To protect a pregnant patient’s life; or
  • ii. For which a delay may:
    • a. Place the health of a pregnant patient in serious jeopardy;
    • b. Cause serious impairment to a bodily function of a pregnant patient; or
    • c. Cause serious dysfunction of any bodily organ or part of a pregnant patient’s body.”

Prop One seeks to maintain reproductive decisions (including abortion) as private and protected up to the point of fetal viability.  Fetal viability is defined in the act as “the point in a pregnancy when, on the basis of a physician’s good faith medical judgment, based on the facts known at the time, and determined on a case-by-case basis, the fetus has a significant likelihood of sustained survival outside of the uterus without extraordinary medical measures”. 

I sympathize with those with reservations regarding criminalizing doctors for performing abortions, though I think the current law grants exceptions I can uphold. Those suggesting that doctors cannot treat their patients effectively, opting to fly their patients out of state to receive “medically necessary” care, need to read the law more closely.  Why?  Because the law protects the life of the mother when medically necessary.  Doctors can, in good conscience and according to the law, treat ectopic and molar pregnancies, remove a dead embryo or fetus (miscarriage care) and perform abortions when the pregnancy threatens the life of the mother or will result in a baby that cannot survive outside of the womb.  In fact, according to the definition of medical emergency in Idaho Statute 18-502(4), it actually allows termination of pregnancy for bodily impairment as well, a fact completely ignored by those advocating for Prop One.

In my opinion, doctors who delay medical care (or who have moved out of the state as a reaction to the Defense of Life Act) either do not understand the law, care more about themselves than their patients, or have a political agenda supporting abortion that supersedes their desire to give their patients optimal care.  I realize that sounds harsh, but the Idaho Supreme Court gave guidance on this topic when it stated:

“The plain language of [“the life of the mother”] provision leaves wide room for the physician’s “good faith medical judgment” on whether the abortion was “necessary to prevent the death of the pregnant woman” based on those facts known to the physician at that time. This is clearly a subjective standard, focusing on the particular physician’s judgment. [T]he statute does not require objective certainty, or a particular level of immediacy, before the abortion can be “necessary” to save the woman’s life. Instead, the statute uses broad language to allow for the “clinical judgment that physicians are routinely called upon to make for proper treatment of their patients.” See Spears v. State, 278 So.2d 443, 445 (Miss. 1973) (“This allows the attending physician the room he needs to make his best medical judgment. And it is room that operates for the benefit, not the disadvantage, of the pregnant woman.”)

If a doctor’s primary objective is to provide adequate care for her/his pregnant patient, the law protects them.  It should be noted that not a single physician in Idaho has been prosecuted since 2022 for providing an abortion.  In addition, a federal judge ruled that the state cannot sue a provider for performing an abortion to protect the “health” of the mother – though the permanency of that ruling is still undetermined.

The Reproductive Freedom and Privacy Act (Prop One) makes it so health care providers are not criminally-liable for performing abortions under very loosely-defined conditions.  It protects doctors over patients and most certainly more than the innocent lives of the unborn.  In my mind, it opens the floodgates for elective abortion under the guise of “protecting women”.

I love data because it speaks for itself.

As part of my research, I looked up all sorts of statistics to get a clearer picture of the abortion landscape.  In my research I discovered:

1 in 5 pregnancies results in termination.  From the same study: women in their 20s account for over half (56%) of all abortions.

Almost 96% of all abortions are for elective or unspecified reasons.  Of the rest, 0.4% result from rape or incest, 0.3% are performed because the mother’s health is at risk, 2.2% for other health reasons, and 1.2% due to a fetal abnormality.

Abortion of babies diagnosed with Down Syndrome is between 67-90% in the United States.  

Unmarried women account for 88% of those receiving abortions. 

A disproportionate amount of individuals that choose abortion live in poverty.  (36.6 per 1000 versus 14.6 per 1000 for all women of reproductive age).  A majority of patients who terminate pregnancy do so at their own expense.  

Conversely, pregnancy is covered at much higher rates, either through private insurance, Medicaid, or by adoptive parents for those who choose that route.

Rates of death due to ectopic pregnancy in states that strictly regulate abortion are double that of states with looser restrictions.  From the same link, the rate actually doubled before the 2022 Dobbs decision.  Side note: as mentioned before, why are we questioning the validity of a law that allows treatment of ectopic pregnancy and not the doctors who misconstrue the law to justify NOT treating an ectopic pregnancy?

There has been a possible 9.2% increase in pregnancy-related deaths in states with strict abortion laws, equivalent to 68 by the end of 2023.

(The study acknowledges the data is incomplete and does not indicate causation and possibly intervening variables contributing to the results).

There were over 1,037,000 abortions during the same period, an 11% increase since 2020.

Idaho has lost over 35% of its practicing obstetricians since the 2022 Dobbs decision.

I tried to include data that some people use as justification for a ‘yes’ vote on Prop One.   I did so primarily to demonstrate that I try to avoid living in an echo chamber by only reading studies that support my personal opinions.  Confirmation bias is real and we’re all guilty of it from time to time.  From a sheer numbers perspective, Prop One passage will result in far more lives lost than current Idaho law.

I believe that laws both reflect the morals of a society and steer members of that society to act in moral ways.

One of the arguments for Prop One I’ve seen consistently is that government should stay out of what a woman does with her body.  I choose not to address the argument that abortion involves another “body” (though I believe it does).  I will mention, though, that many laws govern what people do with their bodies.  A few examples include: FDA and CDC regulations, seatbelt laws, drug laws, public decency codes, etc.

One of the purposes of government, as stated in the Declaration of Independence is to “secure unalienable rights – specifically Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness”.  I recognize that a government’s validity comes from the “consent of the governed”.

Our Constitution outlines the overarching reasons for law in its preamble.  That is: “to form a more perfect union, establish justice, insure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the general welfare, and secure the blessings of liberty”.  Law protects our liberty allows us to live in a civil society in which everyone’s rights are respected.  In the 2022 Dobbs decision, the Supreme Court returned the power to regulate abortion to the states.  The court concluded that abortion is not “deeply rooted in the Nation’s history and traditions”.

In my opinion, the argument that government shouldn’t regulate what a woman does with her body finds little justification in our understanding of the purpose of government and law.  The Idaho legislative branch passed laws to regulate abortion that it believes reflect the morals of the people of Idaho.  Proponents of Prop One disagree and are exercising their right to put an alternative on the ballot.  The people of Idaho will use their vote to decide whether the new initiative reflects our morals and will contribute to desirable outcomes.  

Since Roe v. Wade, the U.S. has lost millions of unborn children to abortion.  I believe elective abortion has also contributed to a depletion of our regard for marriage and family and a problematic culture surrounding sex that relies solely on consent.   Saving sex for marital relationships is virtually nonexistent (despite research to support its positive impact on marital stability). The drop in family size since Roe V. Wade is also staggering, creating additional impacts to society.

Legalized abortion demonstrate vast impacts in the United States.  I fail to find substantial evidence that abortion contributes to a better society.  Governments construct laws to preserve our rights AND to promote a just society.  I recognize the humanity in all of us and honor the agency in each of us to vote for what we deem best.  Still, I hope that, like me, a majority of Idahoans believe in the sanctity of life and support laws that protect the unborn.  There are moral, legal and pragmatic reasons for doing so.

Posted in: Faith Tagged: abortion, abortion law, family, idaho, prop one

May 2021 Primary Singing Time

April 24, 2021 by sueboo

This month’s singing time outline features the following suggested songs (I’ve included ways to sing them in your homes):

  1. When He Comes Again – While you watch this sing-along video, have the children match the pictures in this printable.  Keep playing and singing the first verse until they’re all matched up.  Then sing it with your kids once or twice with the pictures as your guide.  Some of these methods might seem repetitive but I can guarantee that your kids are listening and learning and that repetition is instrumental in that process.
  2. Have I Done Any Good? Introduce this song by watching this music video (featuring Alex Boye and Carmen Rasmussen).  For older children, you can also watch this short excerpt from a talk given by President Thomas S. Monson where he references this song.  There are some great images of things each of us can do to spread “goodness” throughout our communities and the world.  
  3. Choose The Right. Teach your kids how to sing and sign this song by watching this instructional video.  You can also watch the church’s sing-along video as an introduction.  You can also keep the kids’ hands moving as they sing by using these printable CTR shields found at the blog “In the Leafy Treetops”.’
Posted in: Primary Singing Time Tagged: home-centered church, home-centered primary, home-centered singing time, primary chorister, primary singing time, primary singing time activities

April 2021 Primary Singing Time

March 9, 2021 by sueboo

What’s not to like about April?  Warmer weather, General Conference, Easter (most years, anyway) and my birthday!  Now I have another reason to love April – the suggested songs for Primary are short and sweet – perfect for teaching a classroom of rambunctious kids.  Or, since we’re still doing church pandemic-style, perfect for teaching whatever number of young’uns happen to live in your home.  

Here they are:

  1.  Jesus Has Risen  For this song, print and cut out a picture of the Savior for each child.  You can use this printable (6 to a page).  As you sing through the song, raise the picture up each time the Savior is referenced.  To “shake” things up a little bit, fill a plastic Easter egg with beans or rice, seal it up, and shake the egg each time the Savior is referenced.  The song’s message is simple and this exercise will reinforce the central importance of Jesus Christ in our lives.  (Modified slightly from a lesson on Camille’s Primary Ideas).
  2. I Want to Be a Missionary Now  Do you remember when we used these directional signs as we learned the first verse of this song during virtual singing time in February?  Dig them out and use them again with your families to learn the second and third verses.  You can also watch this sing-along video to help you.
  3. Jesus Said Love Everyone   Let’s learn a bit of sign language to go along with the words of this sweet song.  Check out this video to help you learn it!

Feel free to take the time to learn Joseph Smith’s First Prayer in your home over the course of this year.  Whether our Primary Program is virtual or in-person, I plan to include this beautiful hymn in some way.  You can use the storybook you received in January’s singing time packet. 

During virtual singing time a couple of months ago, we used our five senses to imagine what it must have been like that spring day – sun shining, birds singing, bees humming in a shady woodland.  That helped us learn the first verse of the song. 

I also have this printable to help learn the second verse.  It talks about some of the feelings young Joseph had as he prayed vocally for the first time.

And here’s a video I created for learning the third verse.  Grab a pair of glasses (or wait for the ones you’ll get in this month’s singing time packet) and try to imagine what Joseph saw as he spoke with Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ.

 

Posted in: Primary Singing Time Tagged: home-centered singing time, primary chorister, primary singing time, primary singing time activities

March 2021 Primary Singing Time

February 15, 2021 by sueboo

It’s hard to believe it has been almost a full year since we last met together for singing time at church!  I miss meeting together, but I am a huge fan of home-centered learning.  Especially when it comes to the gospel.  The songs we sing in Primary can be sung just as easily at home, and we don’t really even need fancy methods for learning them (although they can help!) 

Parents: It’s important to remember that, while it may feel silly to sing these songs over and over, repetition is how children learn.  They also learn music by experiencing it – which is why I like to provide a few ideas for how to practice primary songs in new ways.  It may seem like a distraction and that the kids are just having fun, but since children learn by having fun, you can bet they are absorbing the music and words (especially if you do it more than once or twice).  In time, the meaning of the words will also sink deep into their souls and build their testimonies of eternal truths.

Here are the three suggested songs for March 2021(plus ways to introduce them to your children):

  1. The Church of Jesus Christ  Have you noticed how many times this song says the word “I”?  Print out this spinner activity on cardstock, attach a spinner (like this one you can buy on amazon) and follow the directions.  Play as many times as you want to!  You’ll have the song memorized before you know it.  You can also watch this sing-along video for some extra practice.
  2. When I am Baptized  Do you remember last year when we used ribbon wands as we sang this song?  You can try it again at home by making your own ribbon wand, or by using a scarf, or a bandana, or by using a stick(or even your hand).  Watch this instructional video on how to sing this song with ribbon wands (Borrowed from Camille’s Primary Ideas).  
  3. When He Comes Again  Cut on the dotted lines of this printable and have your kids match the words of the song to the corresponding picture as they listen to it.  Then sing the song together.  You can also watch this sing-along video.

Home-centered primary singing time for the win.

Posted in: Faith Tagged: home-centered church, home-centered singing time, primary chorister, primary singing time, primary singing time activities

A birthright or a mess of pottage?

January 17, 2021 by sueboo

I mean, which one would you rather have? An inheritance in Israel or a bowl of soup? The answer seems obvious, right?

In the Old Testament, the story of Jacob and Esau always puzzled me. I mean, the idea that the eldest son traded his birthright for a measly bowl of soup? Incredulous.

Honestly, how hungry (and short-sighted) would one have to be to sacrifice his entire inheritance to satisfy an appetite? It just made no sense.

Thousands of years later we live in a digital age where our appetites for pretty much anything (good or bad) can be satisfied with the click of a button.

We decry philosophies that involve any sort of denial of one’s self, proclaiming that “living authentically” is the be all and end all to our existence.

But what if what we think of as “authenticity” is contrary to our divine nature and birthright? What if delaying gratification allows us to achieve an inheritance in the afterlife? I personally believe it will.

What can we liken in our lives to Esau’s irresistible mess of pottage? What appetites are we satisfying today that compromise our ability to achieve all that our heavenly parents have and want to give us?

I can remember going skiing as a teenager and ending up on the lift seated next to a total stranger. We struck up a conversation and discovered that we’d both grown up in the same religion. He’d decided as a teenager that Sundays constituted valuable skiing time and eventually quit going to church in favor of spending the Sabbath day “in nature”, so to speak. He traded God for skiing. Could that be a mess of pottage, of sorts?

Or how about my grandparents, who decided that rather than choose the faith of their ancestors they wanted to spend most of their days on the golf course. They were good people. But in my mind, they had traded something eternal for something very temporary.

Those are fairly trivial. But a so-called “mess of pottage” can be anything but. What about a person whose sexual orientation doesn’t seem to mesh well with God’s commandments? One who longs for a fulfilling relationship but who has been taught that the bounds the Lord has set means that marriage will remain a distant (if not unattainable) reality, if he/she wants to keep the commandments, that is.

That’s super rough. Life can seem long and hopeless under those circumstances. I don’t blame anyone who chooses fulfillment in this life over the promises of the next when their reality is homosexuality.

And yet, when this life is over and those promises are fulfilled, might it seem silly that we chose the bowl of soup over eternal glory? Maybe. It all comes down to faith and patience, right?

I don’t have all the answers.

The good news is, we have a lot of time to figure it out. Esau may have sacrificed his birthright, but it’s not as if he lost everything. Twenty years later found Esau managing his own property, reconciling with his brother Jacob, and burying his father.

He was still blessed, despite having lost the birthright.

Isn’t that beautifully merciful and just at the same time?

I believe in a God who exacts standards of behavior in order to inherit certain blessings. I also believe that one does not have to be perfect to inherit some measure of those blessings.

Our inheritance will be in direct proportion to our level of commitment of keeping our covenants with him.

I personally hope I can keep my eye on the prize. Though the sacrifices I make to be true to my eternal covenants are at times exhausting, the payout is too great. And thankfully, I get glimpses of eternity often to remind me that living the gospel benefits me not just in the next life but today.

A mess of pottage might be just what we want in the moment. But my faith rests in the promise that my birthright is far better than a bowl of lentil soup.

Posted in: Everyday life, Faith Tagged: faith, Jacob and Esau, mess of pottage

February 2021 Primary Singing Time

January 9, 2021 by sueboo

In January during our virtual singing time, we learned the first verse of Joseph Smith’s First Prayer by using our senses.  Could you sense what it was like in that grove of trees?

During the month of February, we are going to focus on the second verse of Joseph Smith’s First Prayer by understanding some of the emotions Joseph Smith experienced as he knelt to pray.  Use this emoji worksheet to better understand all the feelings young Joseph had at the time.  It will help you learn the words to the second verse.

The following are the suggested songs for Primary in February 2021:

  1.  I Want to Be a Missionary Now   As they strive to teach the gospel, most full-time missionaries will spend a lot of time walking.  Use these directional signs to walk in place while you’re learning the words to this song.
  2. The Priesthood is Restored  Play the game “Last Singer Standing” as you learn the words to this short song.  You may be short on breath while you hold out the notes.  
  3. I Stand All Amazed   Sing along to the words as you watch this sing-along video.  Another beautiful version of this song can be found here.

Happy learning!

Posted in: Primary Singing Time Tagged: home-centered church, home-centered singing time, I Want to be a Missionary Now, Joseph Smith's First Prayer, primary singing time, primary singing time activities

My father dwelt in a tent.

December 31, 2020 by sueboo

I recently completed and restarted my study of the Book of Mormon. Sometimes it feels a little like Groundhog Day, as if there is little possibility I could still glean new insight or wisdom, considering that I am reading the exact same book for the umpteenth time.

And yet, heeding the prophet’s call to study it again and again, I turned right back around to 1 Nephi and started reading.

When I was a teenager and someone would ask me which scripture verse was my favorite, if I was in a snarky mood, I’d respond with “And my father dwelt in a tent.” I was kidding, of course, but as I have matured and gained insight, I’ve started to wonder at why Nephi made mention of this fact not just once, but several times in his record.

Specifically, he notes on three separate occasions: “Now all these things were said and done as my father dwelt in a tent in the valley of Lemuel.”

With a limited amount of space on which to write, and the fact that it was labor-intensive, why did Nephi repeat himself over such a seemingly trivial thing? Well, for starters, he’s simply giving a point of reference, so we know when and where certain events occurred.

I’m sure the scholars could write an entire book about it, but I’ll just add my humble musings on the matter. Take a look at the stories that precede Nephi’s references to their tent-dwelling in 1 Nephi 9, 1 Nephi 10, and 1 Nephi 16.

Each of these chapters contains a vision or prophecy. An occasion where the heavens were opened and Lehi (or Nephi, as the case may be) received revelation from God. Is it any coincidence that such revelations came as they “dwelt in a tent”? I think not.

Lehi was a very wealthy man in Jerusalem. Surely the demands of a large family and estate overwhelmed him and his wife Sariah at times. They lived there prior to Babylonian captivity, when Jerusalem’s inhabitants were ripening in iniquity.

Their means probably put them in social circles where there was pressure to keep up with the Joneses, so to speak. Maybe Sariah shuttled her children to and from various activities and a frenzied pace became the norm. Perhaps she worried about her kids’ friends and the influence that a privileged life was having on their commitment to the important things in life.

It’s possible that family time was slipping away from them and that a study of the word of God took a back seat to any number of activities that pulled them in different directions. (I don’t pretend to know what those are, but I do know that a life of entertainment and hobby is not uncommon among families whose finances are secure. Surely, that applied anciently, as well.)

In any case, Lehi and Sariah and their family left it all behind to “dwell in a tent” in the wilderness. Family time was the only time now. Social engagements canceled for good. Hobbies? Who has time for those when you have to find your own food?

In this simplified existence, I’m sure that quiet time with God became more prevalent, not to mention, necessary. Removing all distraction was a gift to Lehi and his family, as they learned to navigate life with the bare minimum, not knowing where they should go or what they should do.

I can’t help but see some parallels between this experience and the 2020 pandemic. Keeping up with a family of seven before COVID hit our country was utterly exhausting. I lived life in maintenance mode, moving from one event/project to the next.

Sure, we studied the gospel regularly in our home, but sometimes only half-heartedly or in a rush to wrap it up to get kids here or there or because they had homework to complete. Half the time we were missing at least one family member.

My personal quiet time of reflection came at a great cost as I had to wake ridiculously early to fit in any sort of scripture study. I fell asleep often because my body couldn’t keep up with the pace of family life.

As the pandemic hit, we figuratively left behind Jerusalem with only the necessary provisions (toilet paper included). Our lifestyle instantly simplified, we found joy in our family relationships, in simple pleasures, in studying the gospel with greater purpose.

Without all the distraction, I have found I am more in tune with my children’s needs. I have more energy to read up on how to navigate the troubles they experience, and more time to commune with the One who has all the answers.

Aside from a few camping trips we took this summer, we have not left everything behind to dwell in a tent. But, by stripping away much of our pre-pandemic baggage, we’ve discovered a closeness to God and one another that I dare say took a back seat for far too long.

Posted in: Everyday life, Faith Tagged: blessings, family time, pandemic

Primary Singing Time – January 2021

December 26, 2020 by sueboo

Here are a few ways to learn the three suggested songs for Primary children in January 2021:

Joseph Smith’s First Prayer – In addition to your regular Come, Follow Me study in Joseph Smith History, use this song to teach your children the story of the First Vision.  Here’s a “storybook” to help them learn the words.  (Cut along the horizontal dotted lines and fold along the vertical dotted lines to assemble).  They can refer to it while you play the music.

(Original idea found at Primary Singing Time Ideas)

You can also watch this sing-along video for extra practice.

Search, Ponder and Pray – Print out this worksheet and follow the instructions for a fun way of teaching your children this song.  You can access the words, vocals, and music here.

(Modified from an activity found at Camille’s Primary Ideas).

Family History, I am Doing it – Junior Primary kids can become familiar with this song by listening to it (on repeat, if necessary) as they color this family tree worksheet.  For an extra challenge(I’m talking to you, Senior Primary kids), see how well they can complete a four-generation chart found here.  (While listening to and learning the song, of course).

Posted in: Primary Singing Time Tagged: Family History I am Doing it, home-centered singing time, Joseph Smith's First Prayer, primary singing time, primary singing time activities, Search Ponder and Pray

Follow the Prophet – Primary Singing Time

August 7, 2020 by sueboo

Can you name the prophets in all the verses of this song? Play each slide and answer the question and see how well you know them.

How did you do?  Here’s a recent video of our living prophet, President Russell M. Nelson’s counsel to the world:

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The Still Small Voice – Primary Singing Time

August 7, 2020 by sueboo

The Holy Ghost is a companion I hope to never be without. Listen to the song in the game below and fill in the blanks with the words that are missing. Each missing phrase is a way in which the Spirit helps us in our lives.

Notice that the song reminds us that the Holy Ghost speaks to us in a still, small voice.  If we are never still and our lives are so filled with things and activities, we may risk drowning out the voice of the Spirit.  Let’s remember to be still so that the Holy Ghost can help us in our lives.

Now try singing the song again with all the words.

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